Waldain Se Hussan Salook

866 My Mother Died While She Was Angry with Me

Posted on October 09, 2013 | Filed under Waldain Se Hussan Salook, Being Dutiful to Ones Parents

Question :
My mother died about six years ago during Ramadhan. When I was young, I was always arguing with her and talking back to her. When she died, she was angry with me. I became older and more mature and now I am remorseful about what happened between me and her. I cannot do anything now except ask for forgiveness and repent to Allah and pray for mercy for her and forgiveness. Is this sufficient to have Allah forgive my sin and have mercy on me for that deed on the Day that we meet?
Second, we do not fast on her behalf.
It seems that there is something missing in the text of this question. Apparently, the mother became ill and was not able to fast and her children did not make up those days on her behalf. Allah knows best.
Are we being sinful? Is it allowed for us to fast on her behalf afterwards even though we were not aware of that matter except recently?
738 My Mother Loves Me Dearly and Treats Me Like a Child

Posted on October 09, 2013 | Filed under Waldain Se Hussan Salook, Being Dutiful to Ones Parents

Question :
My mother loves me very dearly and has a great deal of sympathy for me, perhaps that is due to my weakness and illness. However, her love for me goes well beyond acceptable limits. I am now twenty-one years old yet my mother still treats me like I am a girl of ten. If she is able to, she feeds my by her hand. I, all praises due to Allah, am very soft in speech with her and obey her.
632 That Prayer is Not Accepted

Posted on October 09, 2013 | Filed under Waldain Se Hussan Salook, Being Dutiful to Ones Parents

Question :
I fast voluntary fasts so that Allah may wipe away my mistakes and errors that I have committed without any knowledge on my part. I sick to my religion, and all praises are due to Allah. However, my mother asks Allah not to accept my fasts. This is not due to any reason. My fasting does not affect my housework and she is not in need of me. I am very confused and dump founded that Allah may not accept my deeds and my fasting because the supplications of the parents is accepted by Allah. What is your opinion?
1020 Woh apni maa ko maal daita hai lekin baap ko nahi daita

Posted on April 22, 2013 | Filed under Waldain Se Hussan Salook

Question :
Mai mehakma fouj mai mulazim hoon aur mujhy bohat achi tankhuwah milti hai, jis mai sy kuch raqam mai apni waldah ki khidmat mai paish kerta hoon Qk mazi mai inhuny mujh per kherch kia tha magar mai apny walid ko kuch nahi daita Qk inhuny mujh per hatta k mery bachpan mai bhi kabhi kuch kherch nahi kia tha. kia is ka mujhy koi gunaah hoga?
1869 Sabar karo aur apni maa sy silah rehmi karo

Posted on April 22, 2013 | Filed under Waldain Se Hussan Salook

Question :
Mai apki khidmat mai apni aur apny bhaiyon ki apni waldah k sath mushkil sorat haal ko paish kerta hoon. baat yh hai k waldah is qadar kasret sy humain taan-o-tashnee kerti aur bury andaz mai paish aati hain, jis ki wajah sy hum sy bhi badtameezi hujati hai, hum Allah Ta'ala sy darty hain aur hum yh bhi nahi chahty k apni waldah k nafarman qarar payen ya apny in shetan amaal ki wajah sy dunia-o-akhrat mai khasarah pany walo mai sy hujayen. deeni ehkam ki pabandi kerny ki wajah sy waldah humain taan-o-tashnee kerti hain aur "moviyon" k naam sy pukarti hain, halaan k inhuny khud bhi teesway pary k bohat si sortain hifaz ker rakhi hain. somwar aur jumerat k elawah her mahiny k 3 nafli rozay bhi rakhti hain, naiz is k elawah nafil namazain ada kerti aur nafli rozay bhi rakhti hain. hum apny bhai k sath jab safar hajj per rawana huny lagy to us wqt bhi inhuny humain taan-o-tashnee ki, galiyaan dee aur mara peeta bhi. woh hamary hasb-o-nasb mai taan kerti aur hamari ezzat ko khak mai milati hain aur humain aisi aisi bad duain daiti rehti hain k koi maa apny bacho ko is tarha ki bad duain nahi dey sakti.jis ki wajah sy hamara dil chahta hai k hum issy chor ker kahen aur chaly jayen ya phir humain mout hi aa jaye ta k is k shar sy bach jayen aur ab sorat haal bad ter sy bad tareen hoti chali ja rahi hai. Fazeelah Alshiekh! humain apni waldah k sath kia kerna chaheye? waldah k is tarz amal aur apni zindagi k hawaly sy hum kia tareeka kaar ikhtiyar karen?
698 Nakhuwandaah aur khuwandah olaad

Posted on April 22, 2013 | Filed under Waldain Se Hussan Salook

Question :
Walid ki vafaat k bad ab waldah hamary sath ghar mai muqeem hain. meri waldah na khuwandah hain jab inhain azkar ya chori soratain yaad karaieen to woh inhain sahi tour per yaad nahi ker sakteen ya inhain samjh nahi sakteen. lekin is k bawajood woh farz aur nafil namaz ki paband hain, lehaza sawal yh hai k in k sath mamla kerny ka sab sy kamiyab tareeka kia hai k in k sath naiki ker k Allah Ta'ala ki raza mandi aur khush navi hasil ki ja saky, rehnumai farmain. Allah TA'ala apko ajar-o-sawaab sy nawazey?
1587 Maa k 3 aur baap ka 1 haq hai

Posted on April 22, 2013 | Filed under Waldain Se Hussan Salook

Question :
Allah Ta'ala ny maa ko baap per Q terjeeh di hai k RAsool Allah (S.A.W) ny maa k 3 aur baap ka aik haq qarar dia hai?
831 Meri waldah mujh sy naraz hi fot hugae

Posted on April 22, 2013 | Filed under Being Dutiful to Ones Parents, Waldain Se Hussan Salook

Question :
(Alif) Taqreeban 6 saal pehly Ramdan-ul-Mubarak mai meri waldah ka inteqaal huwa. mai bachpan mai akser oqaat is sy larti jhagerti aur bahes mubahisa kerti rehti thi to jab woh fot huwi to mujh sy naraz thi. umer mai ezafay k sath aqal-o-shaour mai bhi izafa huwa to ab mai apny is ravaiye per nadim houn aur siwaye nidamat-o-estagfar k aur waldah k liye Allah Ta'ala k hazoor rehmat-o-magfirat ki dua k aur kuch ker bhi nahi sakti. kia yh sab kuch is amar k liye kafi hai k Allah Ta'ala mery guzishta gunaaho ko muaf farma dey aur rozay qayamat mujh per rahem farmaye.
(Bay) Hum waldah ki tafr sy rozay nahi rakh saky kia es k liye hum gunaahgar hain? kia hum ab is ki tarf sy rozay rakh sakty hain? is baat ki wazahet zarori hai k humain is baat ka ilm bhi kuch arsa qabal hi huwa hai.
1459 kia Aik Bachy hi sy Waldain ki is qadar Muhabbat darust hai?

Posted on April 22, 2013 | Filed under Being Dutiful to Ones Parents, Waldain Se Hussan Salook

Question :
Meri waldah mujh sy bepanah mohabbat kerti aur intehai shafqat sy kaam laiti hai, shayed is ka sabab meri bimari aur kamzori hu magar is ki mohabbat hadod sy tajawuz kerti nazar aati hai. meri umer is wqt 21 bars hai. is k bawajood woh mujh sy 10 saala bachi ka saa salook kerti hain. husaky to mujhy apny hath sy khilati pilati hain. mai Bahamadulillah is sy naram lehjy mai bat keri hoon aur hussan salook ka muzahira kerti hoon.
1342 Naik Larki k liye Waldah ki Gair Maqbool Dua

Posted on April 22, 2013 | Filed under Being Dutiful to Ones Parents, Waldain Se Hussan Salook

Question :
Mai akser nafli rozay rakhti hoon ta k Allah Ta'ala meri in lagzisho aur ko kotahiyon ko muaf farmai jo k mery ilm k bagair sar zad hoti rehti hain, mai Al Hamdullilah apny deen per kaar band houn lekin meri waldah Allah sy yh dua kerti hai k woh mery rozay qabool na farmai. mujhy nahi maloom k is ki kia wajah hai, halaank mera roza gharelu kaam kaaj per asar andaz bhi nahi hota, phir woh meri muhtaj bhi nahi. mai is baat sy bary qalaq aur eztrab mai mubtala hoon k maa ki baddua ki wajah sy Allah Ta'ala mery naik amaal aur rozo ko qaboliyat sy nahi nawazyga Qk waldain ki duain baargaah-e-Elahi mai qabool hoti hain. is k muta'aliq apka kia khayal hai?

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