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13854 Qabron ki ziarat karny aur un sy wasila pakerny ka hukum

Posted on March 13, 2013 | Filed under Aqeedah

Question :
Qabrun ki ziarat, mazarun sy wasila lny aur (charhawy k tour pr) wahan maal aur dunby wagra ly jany ka kia hukam jai? Jesa k(log Soudan mai) Sayd-ul-Badvi,(Iraq mai)saydina Hussain Bin Ali R.A aur (misar mai) syda Zainab R.A ki Qabor(per karty) hain. Jwb sy mustafeed frmyn, Allah apk ilm mai Barkat dy.(ameen)
1604 Bimari k sabab rowny ka hukam

Posted on March 26, 2013 | Filed under Aqeedah, Faith

Question :
Mai bimar hon aur kabhi kabhi apni almanak halat per gair eradi tour per rowny lagti hon.tou kia is tarhan rowny ka matlab Allah Ta'ala per aitraz aur isk faisly per adam raza ka izhar hai?naiz kia bimari k bary rishtydaron sy baat kerna bhi Allah Ta'ala kfaisly per razi na hony mai dakhil hai?
1396 Kuffara Saiaat ka matlab

Posted on April 03, 2013 | Filed under Namaz

Question :
Meri bivi apny pehly bachy ki paidaish tak namaz parhti thi,phir is bina per sustika muzahira kerny lagi k wiladat ki wajah sy aurat sy tamam gunaah saqit hujaty hain, apki is bary mai kia rai hai?
1352 Mera khawand bilkul meri parwah nahi kerta

Posted on April 17, 2013 | Filed under Miaan Bivi ka Tarz-e-Zindagi, Relation Between the Spouses

Question :
Mera khawand.............. Allah Ta'ala issy der guzar farmaye...........agarcha khashiyet Elahi ka hamil aur ikhlaq fazla sy mutasif hai magar meri bilkul koi perwah nahi kerta, hamesha tarsh roi aur sangdilii ka muzahira kerta hai, phir woh iska zimedar bhi mujhi ko thehrata hai lekin Allah janta hai k bahamdulliah mai is k jumla haqoq ki adaigi kerti hoon. hemasha iski rahat-o-etmenan ka saman fraham kerti houn aur is ko nagwar kerny waly her amal sy perhaiz kerti hoon, is k bawajood mai, jo salook woh mujh sy rawa rakhta hai, sabar kerty huway sab kuch bardasht kerti hoon. mai jab bhi kisi cheez k muta'aliq deryaft kerti hoon ya kisi masley k bary mai baat kerti hoon to gazab naak hu ker bharak uthta hai. is k ber aks apny sathiyo aur dosto ki sath khandah roi aur hashash bashash tabiyat k sath rehta hai, mai ny hemasha hi is ki tarf sy bad mamlagi aur dant dapt ka samna kerna kia hai. iska yh raviya kabhi kabhi to itna takleef dah aur almanak hota hai k mai yh sochny lagti hoon k Q na is ghar baar ko kher baad kerh dia jaye. Al Humdulillah! meri ta'aleem middle tak hai aur Allah Ta'ala k aeed kerdah faraiz ki adaigi mai koshaa rehti hoon. Fazilaat-us-shiekh! agar mai yh ghar chor doon. tan tanha apny bachu ki ta'aleem-o-terbiyat ka intezam karon aur zindagi k dukh sukh bardasht karon to kia mai gunaahgar houngi? ya issi halat mai is k pass rahon aur sab kuch nazar andaz kerty huway zindagi k baki ayaam pury karon?
2093 Sabar karo aur apni maa sy silah rehmi karo

Posted on April 22, 2013 | Filed under Waldain Se Hussan Salook

Question :
Mai apki khidmat mai apni aur apny bhaiyon ki apni waldah k sath mushkil sorat haal ko paish kerta hoon. baat yh hai k waldah is qadar kasret sy humain taan-o-tashnee kerti aur bury andaz mai paish aati hain, jis ki wajah sy hum sy bhi badtameezi hujati hai, hum Allah Ta'ala sy darty hain aur hum yh bhi nahi chahty k apni waldah k nafarman qarar payen ya apny in shetan amaal ki wajah sy dunia-o-akhrat mai khasarah pany walo mai sy hujayen. deeni ehkam ki pabandi kerny ki wajah sy waldah humain taan-o-tashnee kerti hain aur "moviyon" k naam sy pukarti hain, halaan k inhuny khud bhi teesway pary k bohat si sortain hifaz ker rakhi hain. somwar aur jumerat k elawah her mahiny k 3 nafli rozay bhi rakhti hain, naiz is k elawah nafil namazain ada kerti aur nafli rozay bhi rakhti hain. hum apny bhai k sath jab safar hajj per rawana huny lagy to us wqt bhi inhuny humain taan-o-tashnee ki, galiyaan dee aur mara peeta bhi. woh hamary hasb-o-nasb mai taan kerti aur hamari ezzat ko khak mai milati hain aur humain aisi aisi bad duain daiti rehti hain k koi maa apny bacho ko is tarha ki bad duain nahi dey sakti.jis ki wajah sy hamara dil chahta hai k hum issy chor ker kahen aur chaly jayen ya phir humain mout hi aa jaye ta k is k shar sy bach jayen aur ab sorat haal bad ter sy bad tareen hoti chali ja rahi hai. Fazeelah Alshiekh! humain apni waldah k sath kia kerna chaheye? waldah k is tarz amal aur apni zindagi k hawaly sy hum kia tareeka kaar ikhtiyar karen?
966 The Ruling Concerning Visiting Graves and Using Them as a Means of Approch to Allah

Posted on April 30, 2013 | Filed under Aqeedah, Faith

Question :
What is the ruling concerning visting graves and seeking to get closer to Allah by means of mausoleums, and using sheep and to wealth to get closer by them, such as visiting the mausoleum of al-sayid al-Badawi, Al-Husain and al-Sayidah Zainab.
The question is ferrering to a commaon practice in many parts of the Muslim world. The three mausoleums in this quetion are located in Egypt. People visit them and offer wealth or animal sacrifices thinking that doing so in the honor of those deceased people will bring them closer to Allah and make Allah pleased with them.___ JZ
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903 Ruling Concerning Crying Due To Illness

Posted on May 02, 2013 | Filed under Aqeedah, Faith

Question :
I am ill and sometimes I cry because of what happens to me after my illness. Is this kind of crying considered an act of opposition to Allah and not being pleased with what He has decreed? I do not do this action willfully. Similarly, does that ruling also include when I talk to my relatives, telling them about my illness?
876 Women Visiting Graves

Posted on May 03, 2013 | Filed under Faith, Mukhtalif Fatawajaat

Question :
What is the reason or cause for the prohibition of women visiting graves?
805 Labor Prains Are Expiation of Sins

Posted on June 07, 2013 | Filed under Namaz, Prayer

Question :
My wife used to pray regularly until her first child. After that she became quite lazy, claiming that a woman's sins are all forgiven due to the pain she faces during labor. What do you say to her?
1073 My Husband Is Not Concerned with Me at All

Posted on September 03, 2013 | Filed under Miaan Bivi ka Tarz-e-Zindagi, Relation Between the Spouses

Question :
My husband, may Allah forgive him, although he has noble character and fear of Allah, is not concerned with me at all in the home. He is always frowning and depressing. One might claim that I am the cause but, and Allah knows this, I am, and all praises are due to Allah, fulfilling his rights and I try my best to make everything very pleasant and nice for him. I also keep anything harmful from him and I am patient with how he treats me.
Every time I ask him about something or speak to him, he gets upset and agitated. He claim that it is ridiculous and useless speech, although he is very friendly with his companions and friends. As for me, I only see harshness and contempt. This hurts me very much and I really suffer from it. Many times I have though about simply leaving the home.
I am a woman, and all praises are due to Allah, who has an average education and I fulfill the obligations Allah has put upon me.
Dear Shaikh, if I leave the house, bring up my children alone and take on my wordly needs by myself, would I be sinful? Or should I stay with him in this situation and just stop talking and participating with him?

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