Spouses


1338 Mera khawand bilkul meri parwah nahi kerta

Posted on April 17, 2013 | Filed under Miaan Bivi ka Tarz-e-Zindagi, Relation Between the Spouses

Question :
Mera khawand.............. Allah Ta'ala issy der guzar farmaye...........agarcha khashiyet Elahi ka hamil aur ikhlaq fazla sy mutasif hai magar meri bilkul koi perwah nahi kerta, hamesha tarsh roi aur sangdilii ka muzahira kerta hai, phir woh iska zimedar bhi mujhi ko thehrata hai lekin Allah janta hai k bahamdulliah mai is k jumla haqoq ki adaigi kerti hoon. hemasha iski rahat-o-etmenan ka saman fraham kerti houn aur is ko nagwar kerny waly her amal sy perhaiz kerti hoon, is k bawajood mai, jo salook woh mujh sy rawa rakhta hai, sabar kerty huway sab kuch bardasht kerti hoon. mai jab bhi kisi cheez k muta'aliq deryaft kerti hoon ya kisi masley k bary mai baat kerti hoon to gazab naak hu ker bharak uthta hai. is k ber aks apny sathiyo aur dosto ki sath khandah roi aur hashash bashash tabiyat k sath rehta hai, mai ny hemasha hi is ki tarf sy bad mamlagi aur dant dapt ka samna kerna kia hai. iska yh raviya kabhi kabhi to itna takleef dah aur almanak hota hai k mai yh sochny lagti hoon k Q na is ghar baar ko kher baad kerh dia jaye. Al Humdulillah! meri ta'aleem middle tak hai aur Allah Ta'ala k aeed kerdah faraiz ki adaigi mai koshaa rehti hoon. Fazilaat-us-shiekh! agar mai yh ghar chor doon. tan tanha apny bachu ki ta'aleem-o-terbiyat ka intezam karon aur zindagi k dukh sukh bardasht karon to kia mai gunaahgar houngi? ya issi halat mai is k pass rahon aur sab kuch nazar andaz kerty huway zindagi k baki ayaam pury karon?
1132 Miaan bivi k mabain khel khufiya hona chaheye

Posted on April 27, 2013 | Filed under Miscellaneous Nature, Mukhtalif Fatawajaat

Question :
Kia hum Rasool Allah (S.A.W) aur Hazrat Ayesha R.A k bahumi dour bazi k muqabley ko orat k liye khel koud k jaiz qarar dainy ki asaas bana sakty hain?
1045 My Husband Is Not Concerned with Me at All

Posted on September 03, 2013 | Filed under Miaan Bivi ka Tarz-e-Zindagi, Relation Between the Spouses

Question :
My husband, may Allah forgive him, although he has noble character and fear of Allah, is not concerned with me at all in the home. He is always frowning and depressing. One might claim that I am the cause but, and Allah knows this, I am, and all praises are due to Allah, fulfilling his rights and I try my best to make everything very pleasant and nice for him. I also keep anything harmful from him and I am patient with how he treats me.
Every time I ask him about something or speak to him, he gets upset and agitated. He claim that it is ridiculous and useless speech, although he is very friendly with his companions and friends. As for me, I only see harshness and contempt. This hurts me very much and I really suffer from it. Many times I have though about simply leaving the home.
I am a woman, and all praises are due to Allah, who has an average education and I fulfill the obligations Allah has put upon me.
Dear Shaikh, if I leave the house, bring up my children alone and take on my wordly needs by myself, would I be sinful? Or should I stay with him in this situation and just stop talking and participating with him?
488 Women Shall Also Have Spouses in Paradise

Posted on October 29, 2013 | Filed under Miscellaneous Nature

Question :
We know that when the men go to Paradise they shall have wives from the Hoor al-'ein . However, when women go to Paradise shall they have spouses or not?
853 Light Sporting Between Spouses

Posted on November 03, 2013 | Filed under Mukhtalif Fatawajaat, Miscellaneous Nature

Question :
Can we understand from the Messenger of Allah (S.A.W) racing with his wife Aisha that women can participate in athletics? We would like you to clarify this issue.

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